Additional Myths About Parenting
Whoever said that parenting was easy has probably never been a parent ever before. Parenting will throw you and your partner through loops you never imagined were possible, subjecting you two to trials and tribulations that test the integrity of your relationship. Now, with that being said, parenting is also quite possibly one of the most rewarding experiences that a human being could go through, and here at DBC Baby Bedding Co, we really value giving the gift of life. Let’s just say that parents deserve more than a little credit when it comes to being the heroes of procreation.
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In our previous blog post about parenthood myths, our custom baby bedding suppliers addressed some typical misunderstandings about parenthood, and in today’s blog post, we’re going to continue touching on a few more parenthood myths. Once you’ve refined your knowledge about parenthood (if you’re here, chances are that you’re a new parent, right?), make sure that your loved one is warm and comfortable at night by shopping our unique crib bedding and newborn bedding sets. After all, your baby deserves the best, and the best in custom baby bedding is what we do!
Myth: Parents Shouldn’t Tell Their Kids No
Contrary to popular belief, it’s okay to tell your kids that they shouldn’t have or do something - you don’t have to be the “Yes Man” of parenting. Setting limits actually teaches kids various skills and also helps them feel safe, according to Maui clinical psychologist Heather Wittenberg. Saying “no” doesn’t hurt your child so long as it is done in a respectful and appropriate manner as opposed to a hostile or aggressive tone. The context is far more important than the actual word “no.”
Other examples of helpful, healthy limit setting include suspending your teen’s cell phone privileges if they aren’t meeting their responsibilities (something that’s way down the line for all of you new parents, but hey, it’s never too early to start giving it some thought). When your baby is of toddler age, as another example, taking them out of a party setting until he calms down and expresses his frustrations in words is another healthy and constructive way of saying “no, I’m not going to tolerate that kind of behavior.”
Myth: Your Marriage Will Survive Total Neglect While Raising Kids
The marriage and eternal, loving bond between you and your partner is the whole reason behind having a child, so neglecting your relationship can result in disastrous consequences. While it is true that parenting is all-consuming, attention and focus on the quality of the marriage itself is required to be a successful parent.
Again, as we mentioned above, parenting is no easy feat - in fact, it’s one of the most challenging things that a person can go through. Couples might only communicate when there’s conflict, engage in individual activities, and not spend any time together without the kid(s) around. This causes the marriage to become one-dimensional, focusing solely on the parenting aspect while foregoing any extent of friendship or intimacy. This is not okay. Children tend to learn how to have close relationships by watching their parents do it, so set a good example for your growing kiddo by nurturing your connection with your partner. In this, each partner should be thanking, complimenting and touching each other, providing a source of strength and comfort for each other as well as the child during the everyday ins and outs of parenting.
Side note: Have fun without the kids! Hire a trusted babysitter and go on dates, picking activities that involve laughter, joy, and even something new. Activities that you used to enjoy together back in your younger days are also a great way to keep the spark of the relationship going strong.
Myth: If Your Kids Aren’t Happy, You’re Parenting Incorrectly
In the United States, there’s a huge emphasis on happiness in our culture, so if your kids aren’t happy most or even all of the time, many parents start to worry about what they’re doing wrong. Really, it’s completely normal for your children (and all people in general) to experience a range of emotions. Kids aren’t exempt from experiencing the same highs and lows that adults feel, which actually leads to a much richer and in-depth life as opposed to a more “monochromatic” life.
Each of us is naturally born with a range of emotional experiences and capabilities. It’s healthy to be able to feel and deal with all of them. So, if your growing child is going through a hard time or they just seem upset for little to reason, be there for them - whether lending an ear or providing sage advice, parenting is all about being accessible for your child when things are great and when things aren’t so great.
It’s worth noting that persistent unhappiness with your child may be problematic. This could be a sign that your child is struggling with depression, in which your child constantly cries, has low energy and disrupted sleep. Other kids may be more irritable, agitated and even hostile. Pay attention to how your kid is acting and discuss it with your partner.
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